My husband has to put a photo of his deceased father in law in the living room, and persuasion is us

To solve this kind of problem, in addition to grasping the essence of the problem and prescribing the right medicine, sometimes we must learn to change the form of the problem and use creative thinking to solve the problem.

First of all, clearly tell him that putting the photo of his father-in-law in the living room will not only affect the sensory experience of the guests at home, but also the living room with frequent activities will also seriously affect the sleep of the father-in-law's soul in the sky, otherwise why should the cemetery always be built in a quiet place, the deceased has passed away, and a quiet environment is needed, which is a kind of respect, and has nothing to do with filial piety.

If the husband doesn't listen to the advice, then another way, you can choose to make a photo wall with family members, including photos of the deceased public, so that the living room does not become eerie because of a posthumous portrait, because instead there is a wall of warm photos.

If this still doesn't work, then you must ask the husband to replace the photo with a daily photo and reduce the size before it can be placed in the living room, the family environment is very important to the growth of a child, you must clearly tell him that putting the photo in the living room is not conducive to the child's mental health growth, especially the weird atmosphere.

If it really doesn't work, you can try to replace the posthumous photo with a black-and-white daily posthumous photo, which should be the bottom line of your final compromise, and you must not succumb to your husband's behavior.

Of course, you can't be tough when persuading, you have to show that you know his purpose and feelings very well, but you are also worried about the feeling of a normal atmosphere at home, and a tough attitude must be the last to be used, A: I know very well the weird feeling of a big posthumous photo being placed in the living room, especially at dusk, especially weird, so, I hope these methods can help you.