There are two less condoms on the bedside table, how do I understand it?

My husband and I are the first love of marriage, 6 years, has a deep emotional foundation, has a very cute baby, nearly a year for trivial quarrels have been a lot of fights, he also said a lot of sad things to my heart, but I really never doubted that he will do anything sorry for me, one is his character, the other is his single-mindedness to me, last month, I went back to my mother's house with the baby for a week, the night I came back, I looked very tired and tired (we are not busy with work), my husband did not even say a word to me and hug, I fell asleep when I turned my head, I woke him up at the time, and said that when I was not there, why didn't I sleep well at home alone, I wanted to be so tired, whether I went to play cards with my friends (he played mahjong occasionally, there was almost no other entertainment), he said no, and then he slept on his own, and the second night because of other disagreements and quarrels, just his friend called to let him out, I thought it was to play mahjong again, I didn't care too much, and I didn't call him, who knew that he didn't come back until the next afternoon, I asked him where he went, and he wouldn't let me ask, so I said, go play mahjong? He said no, I wondered at the time, why don't you play mahjong overnight? Because he didn't return a few times because he played mahjong until dawn, in addition to the habit of spending the night outside, the baby had to rummage through the drawers to play at night, I accidentally saw that the condoms in the bedside table were missing two, I pretended to be very calm and asked him, but he said that it was used when masturbating, I can't believe it's true?

I've never seen him like this, and I've never thought that he was secretly masturbating, I said I can't satisfy you? He explained that it has nothing to do with this, men always have this stage, and I don't know much about this, I said, then why do you still wear a condom? He said he was afraid of getting the quilt dirty, is that right?

Is this what men think mentally when they masturbate? When they do this, do they think about what it feels like to be a wife? And based on the situation in the past few days, I don't know if he is telling the truth?

Is there a boy who can tell me if you can believe what your husband says? To add that I'm 25 and he's 27, we live as a couple on average once a week to twice, is it normal?

You can't think without facts.

It's just that there is a small friction in your relationship at the moment, and it should be taken seriously.

Why did you go back to your parents' home? If you leave because you are angry with him, it is normal for him to pick you up and show no affection. But the next day, after you get angry, it's his fault to go out all night, no matter who it is, it's better not to spend the night outside the family who has become a family, that will bring harm to the other party, and it will bring a shadow to the relationship.

The frequency of sex varies from person to person, as long as both parties feel comfortable; As for the masturbation condom, it is also established, and the habits are different; It's not that you can't satisfy him that he masturbates, it's that men are almost like that.

So, you have to be calm in the absence of facts. The important thing at the moment is to adjust your relationship as husband and wife, you get along well, and nothing else exists. Use.

The gentleness of women nips in the bud any unsatisfactory or sprouts. Happiness!