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Anonymous users2024-01-241.Prepare in advance, since it is a "appearance", you must dress appropriately. Ask your girlfriend about the occupation, culture, and interests of her family members, buy some gifts, think about the questions raised by the other person, and prepare for some responses.
You should ask your girlfriend for advice in advance to see what kind of conversation atmosphere and environment the second elder likes, what topics he likes, and what hobbies he likes, so that he can prescribe the right medicine and be invincible.
It is important to have confidence in yourself, to fully display your talents and abilities in front of your future father-in-law and mother-in-law, and to behave naturally and generously, so that she will have a good impression of yourself.
2.Procedural work of the meeting: greetings, warm and sincere greetings after entering the door, leaving a good first impression.
If you see your girlfriend's parents, you should ask, "How are you doing?" When the other party is tea, he should stand up and take it with both hands and nod his head in thanks. When your girlfriend introduces a family member, give the right name and nod and smile.
3.At the beginning of the conversation, you may feel inhibited. You can use local materials or draw topics based on her parents' interests.
Her parents will definitely ask you some questions about your studies and life. Remember, listen more and talk less. You must not be overtly advertised as smart and capable.
Maybe your future father-in-law and mother-in-law will think, "This kid is too sharp, can my daughter marry him?" "Whatever her parents say on what the subject, you have to listen patiently, and although you are not convinced, you have to smile and nod your head in agreement. It's not so simple to think of the comment that "the child can be taught".
4.Talk about some positive topics, or praise the advantages of the elderly, or talk about their work expertise, or love and responsibility for their girlfriends, etc., which are more extensive; If you accidentally go cold, be sure to ask your girlfriend to find a topic from it.
5.Also, in front of her family, you should still be polite to your girlfriend's conversation, and don't be as intimate as when two people are alone. Finally, say goodbye politely:
Goodbye, I'm sorry to make you tired after a hard day! Come back in a few days. Wait a minute.
When you get out, you'll be at ease.
Express your deep affection for your girlfriend and your special cherishment, so that your future parents-in-law can trust your daughter to you.
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Anonymous users2024-01-231. Dignified appearance, 2. Courteous, 3. Speak decently.
This custom depends on the place, but it seems that most places are like this. But whether to give it or not depends on the parents, to see the future daughter-in-law, the parents' mood must be very excited, thinking that their son's lifelong events will be solved, thinking of the future, the parents' hearts must be very excited. >>>More
It is to let go, don't be timid, don't pretend (pretend to be forced), tell the truth, remember to call someone when you enter the door, have a sense of intimacy, don't stilt your legs when sitting on the sofa or chair, have a sitting posture, remember to ask you something, you have to be very serious, you should use your hands to catch water when drinking, remember not to talk nonsense when eating, when her parents toast, your wine glass should be below (a little lower than theirs), remember to call someone when you go out.
It's not just a matter of speaking, it should be more serious. >>>More
No, he got it into the toilet by himself, it has nothing to do with you, I wish you health, peace and happiness, even if you buy it, don't want it.
Personally, if it's an afternoon slot, you can choose to go to a café first, and the two of you can sit down and have a coffee and chat. You carefully enhance it, get to know each other, and then continue to chat online, you can make an appointment with the family to eat somewhere and choose some of his favorite foods, such as steak or some Western food.