I felt lonely, my mother and grandmother were arguing in the living room, what should I do with tomo

Your priority now is to study. The others have time and opportunity to think later, but there is only one opportunity to learn. No matter how bad the relationship between your parents is, I believe they all love you.

Try to exchange ideas with them from your point of view. Parents, there is their world, and there are some things that we can't control. But don't be influenced by them.

Life is beautiful, communicate with people more. Slowly, it will become lively and cheerful. People want to be friends with you, too.

You can also do some of the things you like to do. Develop your own hobbies. You haven't reached the college entrance examination yet, so the test results are only temporary, and it doesn't mean everything, and if you work hard in the future, your academic performance will be improved.

If you want to make money, a person's knowledge and experience ......It's important to take a long-term view. Change from now on. In the future, there will be a lot of money.

Alas 1, you can choose to concentrate on reviewing, what does it matter to you when they quarrel, hurry up and learn while you can learn, you have already decided that your family is unreliable, if you don't know how to deal with it, you have to do your own things well, family or something, and only rely on yourself to form a good family;

2. Okay, if you choose to deal with it, please walk in front of the mirror first, smile to yourself, and then pour two glasses of water (ps: remember not to use glasses These fragile cups, because we don't know if they will lose the cup when they quarrel, the same principle is not to use boiling water, use cold boiled water or warmer tea), in the past, the common sentence is - you have all worked hard, drink water, good, yes, yes, that's it, what you said is too reasonable, very correct, yes, very good, very good......

3. It is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs, many things we can't say clearly, don't take it too seriously, do what you can do, and don't force what you can't do. From an outsider's point of view, many things will be inevitable, and all we can do is to make ourselves strong, and then try to avoid being in such a state in the same environment. You can think about why the father would run away, and how to avoid her husband from this state when she is in such a position as a mother.

And why do mothers and grandmothers get along badly, and if they become other people's daughters-in-law, how to be a good daughter-in-law. If you are a mother-in-law, in this state, how to balance towards your son or daughter-in-law?

You're still too young, the outside world is not easy to mix, even if you go to work, is it easy to be a child? Accumulate strength first, accumulate thick and thin, and then go more smoothly. Don't care too much, only if you calm down first, others can slowly calm down, otherwise, everyone will be in a mess O ( O

Don't think about family things at your current age, those are adult things, and you can't do anything if you want to change them. The end of the semester is approaching, and there is no good way now, don't think too much, go to bed early tonight, don't stay up late, don't be nervous about the exam tomorrow, don't think too much, just play freely, and one more point, remember to make more friends, make intimate friends, sincere friends. There are more friends.,The road in the future is easy to walk.,Of course, the world of one person is lonely.。。

You will be happy when you have friends ...

Change the status quo ......If you don't change your status quo first, you won't change. I know a child who lived with her parents, grandmother and grandfather when she was in elementary school, and her grandmother and grandfather had a big quarrel for 5 days and a small quarrel for 3 days, and when the two of them raised knives against each other when it was the worst time, she was watching from the side. Her parents only get together two days a week because of work, but her parents have a very bad relationship, her mother often says bad things about her father in front of her, and then her father cheats, has a divorce, the two hate each other, and her father almost never takes the initiative to pay attention to her, she rarely calls her father, she was almost seduced and raped when she was 7 years old.

When I met this child, she was in junior high school, at that time she was reluctant to have physical contact with anyone, she had no friends, she was nauseous when she ate food that others had touched, she had to wash the dishes at home herself, and she would have insomnia all night long when she slept in other people's houses, and the situation was very serious. However, she still survived, she studied hard, just to be able to live away from her family in the future, and then she did, she began to take the initiative to contact others, with a little extreme, but she knew how to be grateful, fortunately, there were some very good friends among the people she contacted later. She slowly changed herself, although in the process she made 6 holes in one ear, slashed her hand with a knife, thought about suicide, and ran away from home when she was in elementary school, but she never gave up correcting herself, making herself more cheerful and grateful.

So I admire her and love her now. I think that changing the status quo is not to change the living environment, but to change yourself first, to make your heart strong, and to be strong until now, the source of pain can only make your heart painful a little, and will not shake your will again. You are still so young, don't think about going out to earn money or something, society is darker than you think, and when the time comes, you will be tired not only of the heart, but also of the body.

Study hard, read more books that are beneficial to growth, the grievances of the older generation, it is difficult for the younger generation to say anything, and the situation is also very embarrassing, but your life is still very long, contact with others more, and relax.

en Now you don't have to think about anything, and you can't change much if you intervene in family problems, so what you need is to change yourself, talk to your classmates more, talk to your family at home, and be more cheerful. Now that you are still young, change slowly It is better to rely on others than on yourself, and work your own.

How do I feel that when it comes to your family from your point of view, it's all your family's fault? And responsibility? Read well, don't talk about anything else. Because their quarrels and contradictions, which really affect your learning, can be brought up with your parents.

Look to the sky. Hair. Calm down. Nature. Mankind.