Why does my sister like to sit alone on the balcony lately?

It is likely to be the troubles of adolescence, and children nowadays are precocious. My advice is to ask your sister, but ask skillfully. I recommend talking to her first, but don't get straight to the point, start with the trivia, and then slowly talk about the emotional troubles you have experienced yourself (about 17 years old), and then arouse her emotional resonance, and slowly your sister will tell back to herself.

I've used this trick many times, regardless of age, to solve emotional problems (whether it's friendship, love and ......Tried and tested.

The phenomenon is very normal, and if it is not solved, it will become abnormal. Just ask, how do we know which tendon is wrong?

Brother Nemo will find a way for you to tell her a story. Once upon a time, there was a person who was lively and lovely, who liked to communicate with people, so she was unrestrained, she was optimistic, so she was happy, and the whole world was always with her. At the same time, there is also a person who likes to be stuffy, does not like to communicate with others, closes herself, she is always unhappy, and slowly she is abandoned by the whole world.

There was an old lady who had two daughters. The eldest daughter's family sells umbrellas, and the younger daughter's family sells shoes. Whenever the sun is shining, the old lady worries about her eldest daughter's family - the umbrella can't be sold; And when it rained, she was worried that her youngest daughter's business would not be able to open.

So she lived in depression all day long.

A wise man said to the old lady, "I have a way to make you happy every day, but you must do what I say." ”

So what can I do to be happy? ”

It's as simple as adjusting the focus of your mind. The wise man paused, then said, "Why don't you think so?"

When the sun is shining, your little girl will sell a lot of shoes, and you should be happy! Whenever it rains, your eldest daughter will sell big umbrellas, and you should be happy! ”

The old lady suddenly realized, sincerely and happily accepted the wise man's advice, and lived happily every day.

I'm like that, I need a little quiet once in a while, and it's not bad, and you can think about a lot of things, and you can try it, and you can do this when you're worried, and you can solve a lot of things.

There may be something wrong, for example, sentimentality, delusional syndrome.

Fall in love, right== Fall in love?? At school, I was stimulated by a classmate teacher. It seems that when I was 14 years old, I was also fanatical about overthinking.

I also cried in the quilt, and I had nothing to do with the wind, .........I think it should be a physical problem, I had a physiological problem when I was 15 years old, such as coming to menstruation. Or like I do now, with a little bit of a separate thought. But it's usually stimulated.,Now we're in love.,Tender ( I also liked someone else before, he didn't like me, I was also very uncomfortable, and I didn't want to talk more.........

The normal phenomenon of adolescence ...

A fourteen-year-old girl may have had problems getting along with her friends.

Junior high school students are also very stressed, whether they are regulating their emotions and relieving stress.

Girlish feelings are always poetry