My boyfriend is from the countryside, and I m afraid that I will feel cold when I go to his house to

Updated on Toilets 2024-08-14
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's not winter, rural toilets are generally outdoor squatting pits, and they are always cleaned up after many times, and it's so cold in the north in winter, it's really cold to go to the toilet. The boyfriend may be a little embarrassed.

  2. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Maybe he's not ready for the time being, just make excuses, do you think the toilet problem is important?

    Huhu He may be afraid that you can't accept their poor facilities, I've been to the rural toilet before, hehe, just give us the same dry toilet here...

  3. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's not going to be that serious... Unless he's in the open.

    Generally, it's just 4 brick walls, and they don't flush, in fact, he said that your fear of cold is not the point.

    The point is that there are worms in there, I just didn't explain it to you. It's not a worm, it's a maggot.

  4. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's almost a thatched pit, squatting, and the flavor is relatively strong.

    It doesn't matter, you don't spend 24 hours in the toilet anyway. A little cold is nothing.

    Love is something that the toilet can't control.

  5. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's the kind that is in the open air or the kind where the dung pit is exposed! That's what I used to tell my girlfriend! She said it didn't matter, she could take it!

    But she regretted it as soon as she got off the train! Then under my persuasion, I stayed for three days and two nights and went back, and we broke up completely in half a year after coming back! So depressed!

    Hope you've thought it through!

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Wow, you are really happy, born a city baby, let me tell you, he said this probably because of his inferiority complex, because your home is in the city, and his family is in the countryside, so the gap between the two families will be relatively large, I am afraid that you will look down on him, and he may think like this in his heart. Let me talk about the problem of toilets, I think the toilets in the rural areas of the north and south are almost the same, the common name is "Maokeng", you can roughly think of its appearance from the word "pit", in fact, the way to use it is the same as the toilet in the city, but it is different from the toilet.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I grew up in the countryside, the toilet in the countryside, generally is the thatched toilet, after the poop is just covered with grass ash, generally there is some smell, if some are very poor, maybe the thatched toilet will be no door or even if there is very broken, hygiene, not at all, this is the situation in the south, the north should be about the same, the conditions are better in the countryside or people's homes, it may be better, it is a modern toilet.

    I guess he was afraid that you would go to his house might be one or more of the following:

    1.The toilets he said were really bad, as I described earlier, to be honest, like you've been growing up in the city, you're really embarrassed to let you see that.

    2.Maybe his family is poor, in addition to the poor toilet, the living is also poor, living in mud brick walls or even if it is a brick wall is very dilapidated, and even because there are few rooms, only male and female rooms are divided, and they all live together.

    3.There are sick and disabled people in his parents or siblings.

    4.His home is inaccessible, perhaps even in a ravine.

    5.For one or more of the above four points, he is afraid that you will not be able to accept it for a while, and then it will blow between you, so he considers not taking you home for the time being.

    6.He's on a blind date with another girl or has a girlfriend or hasn't broken off the relationship yet, and doesn't want to take you home for the time being.

    If his family is really poor, there will be some inferiority complex somewhat, if you really like him and don't mind that his family is poor, then it is easy to do, and you can tactfully let him and his family understand your thoughts through communication. If she has a good character, good health, certain work skills and self-motivation, and you like her, then you don't have to care too much about his family's poverty. Either way, be mentally prepared.

    Good luck!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    No matter how bad it is, it is better than the South.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Oh, the girl is so cute, you will know when you go, there will always be a first time.

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