The new daughter in law enters the door for three days and returns to her parents house, starting f

Updated on Enter the door 2024-07-22
2 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    That's right. According to Chinese wedding etiquette, the bride will be asked for three days of marriage

    Bring a lot of gift plates home with the groom, and also call the right to "return to the door" for 3 days. This is a kind of etiquette among the Chinese. The bride's parents attach great importance to the etiquette of returning to the door for three days, which is a major event for the bride's family, so the newlyweds should be prepared for gifts and strive to leave a good impression on their father-in-law.

    Door-to-door gifts should be prepared in advance, gifts must be something that the bride's parents like, and door-to-door gifts should be bought as fashionable gifts. When returning to the mother's house, the bride and groom must first greet the elderly, and the groom should change his name to his parents, and treat relatives, friends and neighbors with cordial enthusiasm. At the family meal, the bride sits on one side with the groom and toasts to thank everyone for their blessings to the bride.

    Don't rush home after dinner, talk more with your parents or engage in some entertainment activities with your family, go home with the sun before the sun goes down at about 4 o'clock in the afternoon, and invite the elderly and siblings to your home.

    Now that times have changed, and life is fast-paced, since you are planning to go on a honeymoon trip, there should be no problem with explaining it to the old man.

  2. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Yes, back to the door: the old bai Han du marriage customs. That is, after getting married.

    Three, six, seven, nine,

    On the tenth day of the DAO or the full moon, the son-in-law returns with a gift.

    Pin, with the bride back to her parents' home, worship the scorpion wife's parents and relatives. The gift of becoming a son-in-law since the beginning of the kiss has been completed. This custom originated in ancient times, and is generally known as "Guining", which means to go home to visit your parents after marriage.

    In later generations, the names were different in various places, the Song Dynasty called "Baimen", the Qing Dynasty called "Shuanghuimen" in the north, the south called "Huiqin", some areas in Hebei called "Call Aunt", and Hangzhou called "Huilang". In modern times, Tongbao is on the third day after marriage, also known as "Three Dynasties Huimen". This is the last ceremony of the marriage, there is a daughter does not forget the gift of parental upbringing, the son-in-law thanks the parents-in-law and the newlyweds for their love and beauty, etc., generally, the female family has a banquet to entertain, the new son-in-law is seated, accompanied by the female patriarch.

    Newlyweds or return on the same day

Related questions
2 answers2024-07-22

This is not an advisable thing.

The main thing is family harmony and happiness. >>>More

1 answers2024-07-22

Haven't heard of this! Nothing to worry about!

1 answers2024-07-22

I've never heard of such a custom, so I guess it's something that happened in some family to tell the story.

1 answers2024-07-22

Depending on the other party's economic conditions, give as much as you want.

1 answers2024-07-22

Rites and mourning should be fateful.

Grace is filial piety, and it seems to be arranged in the dark. >>>More