Seek help! At my girlfriend s house, I put my own dishes and chopsticks into the kitchen after every

After eating, you can send your own bowl to the kitchen, and if the kitchen can't fit it, put it on the table and wait for the last person to wash the dishes.

That's right, that's a sign of politeness.

We have a house rule as well, but it's best to say, "I'm done." Please slow down."

Well, that's ...... my family has to do

First of all, you're doing the right thing, but it's not enough. The perfect way to do this is to say that they will eat slowly after you have finished eating, which is a traditional Chinese polite phrase. When you're done eating, you're done right by sending your own bowl into the kitchen, and when you're done, you should stand aside and wait for them to finish eating and help bring the rest of the dishes and chopsticks into the kitchen!

That's what I used to do when I went to my girlfriend's house for dinner, and they had a good evaluation of me.

You have to collect the dishes and chopsticks you eat, but before you collect them, you should politely say that you are full, ask others to eat slowly, and then when they finish eating, you can help clean up the dishes and chopsticks together.

It's the right thing to do, nothing.

Alas, put away your own bowl and let someone else brush it.