Today, my roommate asked me to take a tissue to the bathroom, and I reluctantly gave him two

I think your qualities are good. It's a bit like a lotus flower that comes out of the mud without staining! But judging people or things based on your own imagination will inevitably make mistakes, and I hope you communicate more than the outside world and understand their rules, so that you can integrate and judge others.

First of all, it's normal for everyone to have different levels of possessiveness about their stuff. Possessiveness is one of human natures, and the degree of your generosity is nothing more than what is presented after your rational algorithm and the inferior roots of human nature are intertwined. Stinginess, and some other good or bad qualities are nothing more than this, to put it bluntly, they are just useless cognitions created by the narrowness of our own human minds, which can neither let us understand the world nor allow us to dissect ourselves.

So why care if you're stingy or not, can you still not accept your own existence? Also remember Wenn du lange in einen Abgrund blickst, blickt der Abgrund auch dich immer ohne gewaehr!

Second, you, as a member of the human race, are too focused on the small individual of the "self". When you describe your roommate's behavior of "pretending", your wording is "I feel", (it is not very easy to say in written language here, so I will just speak a little, please bear with me, the following statements do not contain my emotions), why do you think he is pretending and he is fake? Are you the protagonist of a time-traveling novel, and you have read countless people in your previous life?

Or is it "I was born with a very accurate intuition"? It is good that human beings have a "self" and a sense of self because they have a mind, but in the powerful individuals are just ordinary people in the group, and even the group is only a concrete representation under the rules, so the world is not "what I think it is". Laplace's elves are enough to bring you egoists to a complete breakdown.

To sum up, since you feel like this, you just ask, see if you are right, whether he scolds you, it is relatively good, anyway, your relationship is not close, and it can't be worse than anything worse, isn't it (of course, I think if you are not good at words, it is possible to cause worse results, hehehehe)?

Again, I see my answer below and want to complain about the onlookers, I say that I rarely surf the Internet, so I can't see it if you complain, just have a good mouth, don't waste time typing, the so-called "wasting your time is suicide" isn't it.

PS: What you want to complain about the most should be the second part, and the second part doesn't feel like it's a minute-by-minute drama.

Hey, hey, hey, ......

Learn to refuse, be a tough person, don't care what others think of you, just be yourself, and don't worry about other people's business.

I've never seen you buckle like this, a few pieces of torn paper can use you, you're ready to let him take the button, when you want to use someone else, how can someone help you, don't say you'll never use someone else.

It's okay to ask you once in a while, but often if he has a problem.

If you don't get along well with others, find more reasons from yourself.

Friends, you should adjust your mentality, and avoid cranky thoughts and suspicions

I feel like you're the only one who has a problem, you're too narrow-minded.

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My roommate called me to deliver him toilet paper, and I refused. Good things can't think of me, you think of this kind of thing, you want to be beautiful.