My daughter is in high school, she is 18 years old, and she doesn t want to go to the school toilet

High school generally comes back once a week, so he is reluctant to go to school, but the normal excretion of people cannot be controlled, so how can he solve it? You can ask him why he is reluctant to go to the toilet at school. Is it because there is some shade?

Then help him on a case-by-case basis.

This problem is very simple, since he doesn't want to go to the school toilet, then he can't hold it, so he naturally goes to the school toilet, and he can't take it, like this case, there is a psychological disorder. In practice, it would be nice to let him figure it out on his own.

Gao Zheng, 18 years old, doesn't want to go to the school toilet, take him to see a psychiatrist, or what about the fifth middle school? The girl is big, and she is a little unaccustomed to the public toilet, and she is reluctant to go, not because of psychological symptoms, but because she just doesn't want to go, and she feels that she is not used to it, and he can hold it back, so if she doesn't go, she won't go.

After I was 18 years old in high school, I didn't want to go to the school toilet, I took her to see a psychiatrist, but it was useless to say this, in fact, he really had a mental problem, he didn't want to go to the school toilet, but he definitely disliked the toilet in the school, so like this case, you put the child at home, go to the toilet, rent a house near the school, and only let him finish the college exam.

Just high school and reluctant to go to the school bathroom? Wasn't it right to be in junior high school and elementary school before? If that's the case, it should be that she has a psychological effect on the school toilet in high school.

Take a look and ask her the specific reason, is it a toilet hygiene problem, or is it her own psychological effect? After understanding clearly, it is good to enlighten.

From this point of view, your daughter has a little cleanliness fetish, he is the first school toilet dirty, or he saw something in the school toilet that should not be seen, she feels disgusting, this little cleanliness habit will indeed affect him, its psychological problems do exist, the main thing is that you have to care about her, love her, guide her, let him overcome his inner fear, man's biggest enemy is himself, only by defeating himself can he overcome everything, you have to encourage him, to start from his not to go to the toilet at all, so that he is not afraid, Dare to face anything.

Psychotherapy requires persistence over a long period of time.

The first thing to do is to find out the psychological reasons for her development of this disease. For example, in the process of going to the toilet, I have encountered an incident of injury, or I have been bullied by others. Then prescribe the right medicine according to the specific situation.

It must have been when I left a psychological shadow and was reluctant to go to the school toilet, probably because I was bullied in the toilet.

I remember that there were reports on the news of girls being stripped of their clothes and urinated by their classmates, and your daughter may have encountered similar school bullying.

Ask the teacher first, and call the police if you deliberately delay or have a bad attitude.

Go to the teacher's toilet! Talk to the school!

Then avoid going to the toilet at school, try not to drink water and eat, and try to solve it at home!

If you want to talk to him about this, you should communicate with her well.

She is afraid that her privacy will be seen by others.

Don't worry too much, go with the flow and take your time.

As a school boy, I also have this situation, which is purely caused by psychological problems, and has a little to do with personal cognition, but it also shows that your daughter is a little introverted in her heart and wants to avoid public places.

In this case, you don't need to see a psychiatrist, and to some extent you have to learn to respect the child's wishes, because if it doesn't cause too much trouble to life, it's actually just a little weird behavior, and every student will have some habits that are more or less difficult for others to understand.

To name a few of the weird habits I saw at school:

First, a male student can use two packs of toilet sheets a day, and he has to wash his hands every time he touches an object outside his body (at noon, it was difficult for the whole dormitory to fall asleep, and finally let him move out).

Second, roommates have to drink two sips of water loudly after playing with their mobile phones at night, and they must go to the toilet before going to bed, and they often lie down for a while and then get up to drink saliva (80% of this is the case, it has become a habit).

Finally, if your daughter's situation is not very sick and unwilling to do that, then communicate with her and let her go, I didn't want to before, and then until I broke this layer of unwilling "membrane" after a stomach upset, and then I didn't have much rejection of going to the school toilet.

School toilets are disgusting. It's the same when I'm studying. I don't drink a drop of water in school. Try not to go if you can.

My son also doesn't go to the school toilet, the school is too dirty.

Your daughter has a cleanliness fetish, and it's not easy to change, so it's best to get treated.