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Computers are now very popular, there are also at home, children usually do not play during school, but on weekends, they quarrel to play with the computer, let him play, the time can not be too long, it is not good for the eyes, do not let him play, and I am afraid that he will run to the Internet café to play, how to do it, parents? I am a teacher, and I come into contact with students every day who drop out of school because of their addiction to the Internet, so I set a rule for my child when he is very young that he cannot play during school, so my child never mentions the requirement to play with the computer during class, which is still good. But it's not good on weekends, as long as you finish your homework, you have to play with the computer, as long as you play, you don't want to leave, and even if your classmates come to call, you don't go downstairs.

The colleague also said that this is the case with his child, and the method she took was not to limit and let you play, you don't care how long he plays, he doesn't play for that long. But this colleague's child is an elementary school student, and my son is in junior high school, I also tried this method, but he had no intention of stopping, so we parents had to forcibly pull him off the computer, so the relationship between the child and us was strained. This is a headache for me.

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