My husband said that women should be in the kitchen, saying that I am lazy? But I was unbalanced

Your husband is a manly idea! Learn to cook slowly! Men love their daughters-in-law to cook! You didn't think about it before you got married?

Your husband's concept is not only machismo, but also related to the environment of their family, you also said that every time your mother-in-law is in the kitchen, your husband and his father are watching TV, yes, people's lives have always been like this, haven't you ever eaten at his house when you are in love? Didn't find this happening?

Everyone is a treasure in the hands of parents, and I am not happy if I am in your house and encounters this situation. And his reasons are very unreasonable, what does "should" mean? The kitchen is a strange place for an only child who has been pampered since childhood, both male and female.

And again you have no interest in the kitchen.

Make it clear to your husband, let you go into the kitchen, at most it is a help to help and enhance the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and it has nothing to do with "washing hands and making soup".

After the two people received the marriage certificate, the family relationship is the closest, and you have already begun to "stay with him for a lifetime", but it is not only really "keep", but also communication, life also needs communication.

If you want to do it together, now that men and women are equal, you can do it, and you can resign and do it at home full-time.

When I go home from work, I still work, and I don't let people live.

Your family is in a much better situation, I'm even more unlucky, I went to their house to eat, I was alone in the kitchen, he and his mother were watching TV in the living room, I don't know how to do it, if it was just the two of us, it would feel better, they were a family, then I was busy cooking, and I felt like a bully, after all, they were only children all these years.

Tell him it's not like that, I'm diligent in bed.

If you don't want to cook, then don't salivate with your mother-in-law. Only in your own home can you achieve equality between men and women.

Take a look at "Double-Sided Tape".

Sacrifice a little! Who called you a woman! My girlfriend doesn't even need me to call it!

- -I can't get married anymore, and if I want my family to be peaceful, I just go to the kitchen once in a while to help.

Let's get it straight, otherwise it will definitely be the kind of situation you said if it develops slowly.

Your husband is really machismo, our kitchen is basically my husband, as long as he is at home, he cooks, sometimes I am responsible for washing the dishes, in short, it is impossible for one person to do all the housework. Does your husband cook? I feel that he doesn't know how to be considerate of you, oh, if the two of them can cook together, it will feel different, you have to tell him that cooking is not a woman's patent, if he doesn't want to do it, ask a nanny.

Beauty, you can't focus on the horns of the bull in trouble, the more you can't think about it, hey, in the end, there are family conflicts, insomnia at night! Husband and wife are not in harmony.

You and your husband have been busy all day at the company, but when you come back, you have to have dinner with your mother-in-law, which shows that your family is a very traditional Chinese family! Your family's situation is the same as most people's.

In fact, there is nothing to do these things, in my opinion, it is quite happy, you and your mother-in-law behind the hand, after eating, clean up the dishes and chopsticks together. It's just that because your husband asked you to go, instead of you taking the initiative to go, you lack the courtesy of respecting each other, so you can't accept it and can't figure it out.

Before you got married, your mother didn't teach you to do housework often when you arrived at your mother-in-law's house? New daughter-in-law, take the initiative to do some housework, in fact, there is no more tiredness, which will improve the family atmosphere.

In a word: Shake it off! Let's strike!!