I plan to get married with my girlfriend, but her family doesn t come out of anything, buys a house,

Square peg. Marriage is a matter of two people, that is, a matter of two families, how can you let one family work and the other family watch the excitement as if everyone is fine? This kind of family has no sense of responsibility!

What qualities! This kind of daughter-in-law will only be lazy and lazy when she marries back, and thinks it is justified, and if you (or your family) do not serve you well, they will threaten to break up, divorce, etc.! They are definitely people of this quality!

Or maybe she really has nothing to do with it! If you do your marriage, the bride is not her, and it has nothing to do with her family, so it is reasonable for her family to ignore everything. Men, sometimes you have to be tough!

She buys 1 yard of furniture, you also have to learn about his family background, if you think it is the kind that is very picky, or divide it, because the temper is not very similar, if you get married, you will often quarrel over family trivialities, she will leave everything good to her parents, and will also teach your children to be the kind of small family. So be cautious and don't ruin your own future happiness for the sake of face and let your parents worry about it. If you love him very much, he loves you very much, and if his family is not good, you should refer to her character more, and don't ruin your future life and the future of your children.

At the very least, she should honor your parents, and don't be angry because of your filial piety, just fine!

It's so inappropriate. If you are a person who succumbs to the world, then you can only admit it, if not, you can break up decisively.

My wife and I got married three years ago and didn't have anything, and the two families didn't give us anything, even our rings were given by friends (silver), and now we are still very affectionate, although there are some small frictions in life, but we still care for each other, and I think that as long as two people have love, everything is possible.

It's normal for girls to have this kind of thought, but if they don't come out at all, it's still a little inappropriate. At least let her buy some furniture. It is recommended that you go for a prenuptial notarization of property, which will be better for both parties.

It's too selfish, I don't want this kind of wife, even my husband has to calculate.

Maybe her family is in trouble, under the size of a man, but it's so wrong for her to threaten to break up, for whatever reason, you finally make it clear to her and let her know that you like her, but not without temper.