What should you say when you go to someone s house and enter the door?

Updated on Enter the door 2024-07-24
2 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1. Bring gifts, mainly depending on the situation, can be expensive or cheap, tobacco, alcohol and fruits, or if you give his parents something they like, it is best to ask your girlfriend before going.

    2. Before entering the door, you need to call each other's parents, usually aunts and uncles (uncles).

    3. After entering the door (take the initiative to change shoes if you need to change shoes, don't let the other party's parents put the shoes at your feet for you, this is to check whether you are paying attention to details), put the gift in an inconspicuous place (it is suspected of rudeness to put the gift in a conspicuous place), and then sit down after being signaled by the other party's parents.

    4. If the other party's parents pour water for you, you should stand up and pour it yourself, if the other party's parents forget, then you forget it, don't take the initiative to pour water.

    5. After sitting down, you will enter the main topic, in general, it is divided into: introduce yourself (hometown, parents, study, work), and then the process of getting to know your girlfriend, praise her, and say that from the beginning of your acquaintance, you are knowledgeable and reasonable, and you have a good personality (in fact, it is to imply that the other party's parents are well disciplined, and it is also to praise the other party's parents), and then when the time is ripe, you can talk to the other party's parents about your girlfriend's childhood, the work of the other party's parents, and the topics of interest, you must remember, don't be cold, talk naturally, Get up and pour water when the water cup is refilled, and do not go to the toilet during the period. However, if you are interested, you can visit their home (in fact, this time it is mainly to come to recognize a door, and there will be more opportunities to visit in the future, if the other party does not mention it, don't visit, especially your girlfriend's room, don't invite you in, don't go in, some parents are more taboo about this).

    6. If you are left to eat, take the initiative to help serve the food on the chopsticks and set up the chair and other things, and then wait for the other party's parents to sit down after you sit down (do not sit down in front of the other party's parents, and the seat of each family member is basically fixed, whose seat you sit on is not good), praise the food during the banquet, thank you for the dishes, and wait for the other party's parents to put the chopsticks and then put the chopsticks (timing, some parents deliberately wait for you to put the chopsticks before putting the chopsticks, if you see that the other party does not want to add food, the chopsticks have been held in your hand, then you should take the initiative to say uncle and aunt I am full, you eat slowly. Help clean up after eating.

    7. If the other party's parents look at the watch to see the time or have nothing to say, you have to seize the opportunity to say that there is still something to do, I am disturbed today, thank my uncle and aunt for their hospitality, I took something and a little gift over, and please uncle and aunt do not be ...... to blame

  2. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Sorry, did I bother you.

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