Found mom there was a man outside and this morning I got up and saw that mom wasn t in the living ro

Don't tell your dad first, if it's true, just talk to your mom directly about giving her a chance to change, if she doesn't want this home, there's no way.

Don't, you don't get too involved. You just pretend you don't see it, at most a few hints.

You should talk to her and tell her that this is not right from the perspective of your children, provided that you make sure that she has a man outside.

Don't tell your dad. Many marriages survive because one of the spouses doesn't know or pretends not to know. It's inseparable.

Maybe your dad can't satisfy her, right? Let your dad order more of her,

Gather the evidence and give it to your dad

Don't mix with adults' affairs and children, think about the consequences of doing things, don't say it to your face, you should say it from the side, otherwise you won't be happy if the adults are in a hurry, what do you say.

It's better not to tell your dad about it.

You should tell your mother to cut off contact with that person, so that your father won't find out in the future and get a divorce!

Let's figure it out first, and then talk to your dad.