I m a girl, and I want to go to work in a nice restaurant, where you don t need to be tall

As long as you dare to apply, you have confidence and courage; When you are admitted, you will have a stage for exercise, practice, and improvement; Only a change in the inner self can cause changes in attitudes, appearances, and behaviors (changes in mindset lead to changes in body and behavior, and even beauty comes from improving one's mind and confidence). Your attitude is a mirror of your heart, reflected through the window of the soul (eyes) to the guests, and transmitted to the guests through the medium of the mind (language). Kind and kind language and cold and ruthless language reflect different mentalities, beliefs, and different reflections (just like a mirror, if you laugh at it, you laugh at it, and when you cry, it will cry!).

。Let me tell you a very practical way to improve your attitude: you can practice laughing at the Buddha Magnanimity, forgetting all the pain, sadness and negative emotions.

This not only creates a permanent smile on your face, but also completely changes your mindset and even Feng Shui influences. The heart is the enlightenment of cultivating the Tao and learning the Buddha, enlightenment, forgiveness and forgetting of all sins, sinners, enemies, and enemies, and the non-dual law (there is no distinction between good and bad people, high and low people), and this is wisdom. The Buddha is undifferentiated and treats all sentient beings (animals, plants) and things with equality and love; The Tao is natural, everything goes naturally, you can do what you have to do, why worry?

Follow the example of the sun and sow sunshine like good people and bad people! I advise you to read some Buddhist wisdom, the eight precepts are difficult, but the three precepts seem to be feasible, and it is still possible to try to get rid of the three poisons (greed, hatred, and ignorance) of people; There is also the joy of everything, the appreciation of guests, the good and auspicious words, self-humility (this is not without self-confidence and optimism, but to despise the "enemy" strategically and tactically value the "enemy"), respect for others, do not find fault with others, do not laugh at anyone, help others for pleasure, forget about self (this is also self-confidence!). ）。

In this way, we will be able to deal with interpersonal relationships, harmonious interpersonal relationships, will eliminate worries and depression, and achieve ideal, smooth and happy life (and even the next life) in work, life, love and career. In other words, "kung fu is outside the poem", and self-confidence is built up outside of self-confidence.

You have to learn to put a gentle smile on your face, you have to look at the money, and you have to talk to guests as if you were a loved one.

Don't be discouraged because of a failure Appearance is important, but self-confidence is more important When you put on a light makeup, smile and stand up straight, it is the most beautiful time Many things are accumulated after trying and gaining experience If you don't try, you will never know how good you are.

Then slowly get rid of your bad problems, slowly grind your character, and re-erect yourself, because after all, you are not in your hometown when you go out to work, and your character will slowly change.

If you have been exercising in society for a long time and have experienced a lot, you will have smoothed out your character.

Take your time, it will be fine, try to do a good job, be a little patient, change your temper, and be polite to guests in the service industry

Forehead!!! You should be bold in dealing with interpersonal relationships, make more friends of the opposite sex, don't dare to be afraid of anything, just be yourself, don't care about other people's eyes! It's going to be tiring.

The customer is God. In order to live must change the fall.

Life is short, as long as you don't break the law, you can do whatever you want, and you don't have to worry about other people's opinions.

The circle of friends and the surrounding living environment can be changed.