I didn t go to the public toilet because I felt that my shoes were dirty, and I didn t want to wash

Well, this reaction is a bit too much. There is always a time when people need to go to the public toilet and your shoes are dirty and you can throw them away. But that's not the reason why the public toilet is dirty, it's because you think it's dirty, and it spreads to your shoes.

In fact, the toilets at home may not be as clean as the public toilets (except for the public toilets in very poor condition), and the public toilets are cleaned by workers several times a day. I don't know how many times cleaner the public toilet in the unit is cleaner than the toilet at home. Because there are very few people who can be diligent enough to clean the toilet several times a day.

Your mother-in-law is in business, and the family comes and goes, which means that she can do business, has good popularity, goes up and down the toilet at home, and gives convenience to others to make it convenient for herself. What's dirty, everyone is human, and lifting the curtains is not dirty at all. The secretions of the human body are all about the same.

Even if a manual worker sweats, the sweat composition is the same as that of a mental worker. Manual workers, on the other hand, work regularly and are physically healthier than mental workers. I feel that the shoes have a dirty thing with the toilet, which also makes people feel strange, people don't live in the toilet every day, how can shoes be associated with the toilet?

As for the door curtain touching your pants, you feel disgusting and a little abnormal, and your reaction is completely irrational. If the curtain is really dirty, you can remove it and wash it, and help your mother-in-law wash the curtain without getting tired. In fact, if you're really juicy, your pants won't be much cleaner, the dust on the road, your own sweat.

The concept of dirty cannot be directed only at others, not at oneself. The above reactions, to say more severely, are pathological. If it continues to develop, it will not be able to survive in the real society at all, and it will also bring barriers to interpersonal relationships.

Typical cleanliness is fortunately not obsessive-compulsive.

I've seen a brother who not only has a habit of cleanliness but also obsessive-compulsive disorder, and he has to wash his hands ten or twenty times at a time, and he can't be cured by going to the hospital for treatment.

marinette |Level 3 said very comprehensively, and I was also very moved, for the landlord's question, I worked tirelessly to answer so much, and in the reasonable, Lei Feng's example, it is worth learning! Support!