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I know, you are very sad, sad is his attitude and way of discussing problems with you, you don't want to register, but just a little disgusted by his attitude and way, things came a little suddenly, so that you are not prepared at all, if he takes another way to discuss with you, soft tone, you will definitely be happy to register with him, to enjoy this exciting, exciting, happy moment, snuggled in his arms and looking at the certificate that will witness a lifetime, what a happy and romantic thing, But now both of you are very sad in your hearts, you must be accusing each other in your hearts, people, more or less have a rebellious mentality, no one likes to be forced to do things by others, he uses this tough attitude to let you register, you always have a feeling of being forced, you don't want to fail and don't want to lose, right? I think understanding and communication between people is the most important, others can't do anything for you, the bell still needs to be tied to the bell, find a suitable opportunity, the two sit down and open their hearts, and tell each other all the feelings in each person's heart from beginning to end of this unpleasant thing, and also say the feeling that you are "forced", and he also tells the unpleasant mood and reasons, so why does he talk to you in such a tone, why is it "soon" to register, why do you let him wait, why is it sadMaybe you both have a hard time, so why don't you both try to take on each other's hard work? I think you'll soon be able to let go of your suspicions!

I wish you all the best!!

I don't know if the above words will help you, my daughter-in-law and I are like this, the two have contradictions, there are differences, we must find out the contradictions, what is the reason for me to do the same thing, what is the reason for her to do that, if I don't agree with her approach, I will definitely have reasons to disagree, the two of them discuss the pros and cons of each person's idea, so that the "difference" is solved, but most of this time I win, haha!

You're right.

1) He must have a normal reason for changing the important time he has promised, and at the same time he should have a warm and frank discussion. However, he is reckless in his instructions to you, so either he is seriously lacking in communication skills, or there is a mysterious reason;

2) Very good, when the truth is not known, of course you can't blindly cooperate, not to mention that you really care about the original agreement in your heart;

3) It is recommended to have a good chat with him, explain your true inner thoughts to avoid misunderstandings, create a sincere atmosphere to understand the truth of the incident, and remind him of the importance of communication and negotiation;

4) If he just wants to register first and then decorate, please don't agree with him, because in the face of an uncertain future, he should have confidence in you together, agree with your credit, and be willing to pay for you. In other words, he should have the idea that you will not marry, and be confident that you will not marry.

If you want to get married. You can register at any time. Nothing. It came out in less than ten minutes. You'll find out how easy it is to register.

Don't overthink it. Sign up.

That's right, if you like it, you can register, isn't it all a matter of time? If you don't want to get married and decorate something, it may be that you feel psychologically that you can't get by, two people have a good chat, a man, it's like this, it shows how much he loves you, if you love him too, it doesn't matter, right? It's been a few days, as for still hurting feelings for such a thing.

Don't be too strong, two people should tolerate each other.

Are you willing to marry or not, now many people are registered first, and the marriage or something will be said later, it's not a big deal. Probably that is, I love you and want to tie you up with a piece of paper as soon as possible.

I advise two people to calm down before trying to communicate – to understand each other's thoughts.

Try to talk to him about it, if there's something going on.

This is a communication problem between the two of you, no big deal.