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What is your role?
You should be a husband, you can't be a person if you are caught in the middle.
First of all, you adhere to a principle, no one is right or wrong, even if your parents are wrong, you have to coax, and your daughter-in-law is wrong, you are the same.
As for how to resolve long-term contradictions, this is a case-by-case matter.
It is recommended that you reason with your daughter-in-law, talk about how it is not easy for your parents, and coax your parents to come or do something practical, just say what your daughter-in-law did.
Change your impression first, and it will be easier to get it in the future.
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Talk to them separately, calm their emotions first, if they are in a good mood, they can talk together, they are all a family, why should they be more stiff than the "enemy next door"?
What should I do if my daughter-in-law doesn't call her in-laws the same as the enemy after she enters the country, the son acts as a good lubricant from it, and the son mediates from it.
When you first entered the door, you were still a guest, of course, to be polite. For a long time, their own family, of course, have something to say. >>>More
Have the ability to rely on yourself, not at home. It's their business if your parents are partial, as long as you love each other. Don't bother yourself, but if he doesn't have a house for you to marry, everything is up to you. >>>More
It's suitable, what's wrong, what's not suitable??? I never felt that it was inappropriate, and we will be a family in the future, how can it be inappropriate.
That's a must, a mother-in-law is a mother-in-law, never a mother, it's friendship to help you, it's justice not to help you. It's good to adjust your mentality. To be tolerant and tolerant is to be kind to yourself. Bless you!