My boyfriend s own house asked me to pay for some furniture, etc

I don't know where you're from or if the customs are different.

Anyway, many couples who want to get married in Beijing are generally the cost of the man's house and the cost of the woman's family to sell furniture and electrical appliances.

You don't have any savings, your parents should have some money, and you can't let the man's family bear all the burden of such a big thing as getting married.

Marriage is a matter of two people, and this responsibility must be shared equally Since you have decided to go down the road of life with each other, you don't want it to be yours, mine, and the share is so clear If you don't have money to buy furniture, you can save some money before buying it If you can't learn to drive now, you can learn it later, don't do anything that hurts your feelings.

Stressed, can communicate, can balance, don't think irresponsibly, whether to regret marriage, whether to be together, such stupid questions.

Have the courage to take it I believe that your fiancé also loves you very much Otherwise he wouldn't have worked so hard He also said stupid things because of stress Don't blame him.

First of all, your concept is not right, you all intend to.

du is married, zhi you also said that it is your boyfriend's own dao

House. Won't you live there in the future? He spent money to buy Dongquan Xi, don't you plan to use it in the future?

Even if you don't have much savings right now, you can buy as much as you can.

Or do you feel that you want to learn to drive more than get married? Your thought is too chilling for your boyfriend......I'm a girl, and I think it's your ...... wrong on this

Your boyfriend is right, if the two of you are together, there is more pressure than one person, why do you have to live with two people.

Marriage faces a lot of problems It's normal to be under pressure Be considerate of each other Don't feel uncomfortable because of a moment of anger Now that you are facing the situation of no money to buy furniture, you should try to draw some money out to buy some furniture I think I can decorate the house with the person I love and add furniture It is very happy to be able to get married at present I hope you are happy.

I think you should understand that copy your boyfriend, the house is your friend's, the decoration money is also from your friend's parents, and the furniture is also partly bought, you should indeed come up with something, all say that men should support women, but you can't let men bear all of them, it's too unfair! Although you say that you didn't spend your boyfriend's money, but marriage is a matter of two people, and it doesn't make sense to ask you for money. You should think about this from the other side, what will your boyfriend think if you do this?

What would your boyfriend's parents think? Learning to drive is a trivial matter compared to your happiness. Your boyfriend is under pressure now, you have to support and understand him, and I think he will cherish you more.

To be honest, the wedding appliances and furniture on our side are made by girls, and it is understandable to say that two people spend some money together, but it is not interesting to always calculate each other like this. If you get married, you must have feelings, so you will calculate sooner or later. You said that your boyfriend did it, so you can buy something too, just buy a water heater and a TV is indeed a bit less, everyone has renovated, why can't it be tens of thousands.

In fact, there is not much money for furniture, and the parents' family must have the money to marry their daughter, and the parents are willing to pay for this money, and you can subsidize your parents in the future, I think marriage is a matter of two people, you can't push him to do it alone, right?

If it's going to be knotted.

Bai is married, they are all a family, and your husband is the person who has accompanied you all your life, and he is as close as his mother, for example, your mother needs money when she is in trouble, and you are duty-bound, right? It's all a family.,Even if you don't have a lot of money, you can let your parents pay something first.。。。 Marriage is a matter of two people, not him.

Yes, the idea that a woman spends a man's money is a matter of course, and that a woman's money can only be used to buy her own things, which is really good.

Marriage is happy and painful, and it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs, so I hope you will think twice.

A woman who doesn't understand the hard work of men. You only look out for yourself. Cut.

I think you should understand your boyfriend, the house belongs to your friend, the decoration money is also from your friend's parents, and the expert also bought a part, you should indeed come out of something, all say that men should support women, but you can't let men bear all of them, it's too unfair! Although you say that you didn't spend your boyfriend's money, but marriage is a matter of two people, and it doesn't make sense to ask you for money. You should think about this from the other side, what will your boyfriend think if you do this?

What would your boyfriend's parents think? Learning to drive is a trivial matter compared to your happiness. Your boyfriend is under pressure now, you have to support and understand him, and I think he will cherish you more Since the two of you are together, the family planning and purchase in the future will be a matter of two people, and you can't bear to push the responsibility to one person, can you last a long time in the future?

2 people put their money together and plan well.

You won't learn to drive later, and you will learn it again when you have the money. The things he bought are expensive, and they are not for your use yet, but will be public property in the future. It's time to put your home first.

Woman, woman, you're so selfish! Do it yourself!

Since 2 people are together, the family planning and purchase in the future is a matter of 2 people, and you can't bear to push the responsibility to one person, can you last a long time in the future? 2 people put their money together and plan well.