What is it like to eat alone in a restaurant?

I think it's a bad feeling to go to a restaurant alone.

First of all, I feel lonely when I eat alone. When I was at school, I was a running student, and my brother and I rented a house to live in by ourselves, and ate together at the restaurant outside the school every day. The restaurants outside the school are full every day, and since living on campus, I have known what it means to have business interests where there are students.

There are too many students in our school, and my classroom is on the sixth floor, and every day when I eat, I take turns to finish early or late at the time of eating. In the beginning, when I lived alone, every time I got out of class early and no one was out of the restaurant outside, I could buy food earlier and choose a place of my choice. But when I eat alone, it's very boring, and people come to sit at a table with me.

If I get out of class late, by the time I go out, the restaurants outside are full. I was so small that I couldn't squeeze in, so I had to wait all the time, and there was no seat at that time, so I had to pack up and go home, and I was the only one in the empty room to eat.

But it's not the same if there's one more person. Since my brother moved out, our class time just staggered, he was late when I got off early, but he got off early when I was late, so there was no situation where I couldn't eat, if the teacher of the two people was dragged out of class, and they were both late, then he could also give full play to his advantage of being 185 tall and squeeze in to buy food smoothly. Even if you don't have a seat, it's a good feeling that the two of you will buy food and go home to eat together.

Secondly, a person will hastily choose a place to eat and eat a little casually, no one is so particular about it, and it is not interesting. In short, I don't want to eat alone.

It's a bit lonely, but it's good to get used to it.

When I was in school, I usually went to the restaurant with my roommates to buy food and then went back to the dormitory to eat, rarely we would eat in the restaurant, even if I was alone, I went to buy food and then walked back to the dormitory to eat, the experience of eating in the restaurant alone is quite rare, but there are, for example, once I went to the restaurant to eat when I was about one o'clock, it would be myself, I was going to go to the library for self-study after eating, I thought there should not be many people in the restaurant at one o'clock in the afternoon, maybe because of the exam week, Everyone's schedule is not very regular, there are still a lot of people in the canteen, so I bought a burrito, because it is a person, so every time I feel that someone is talking about myself, so I quickly finished eating and left. I think it's not common to eat alone in a small city like ours, but in some large developed cities, there are a lot of people who eat alone, I once went out on a trip with friends, and the group had a self-service of a restaurant in the evening, which was a seafood hot pot, and then we just went in when we followed a 45-year-old aunt behind us, and when I read the verification code, I heard the aunt say that it was a person, in fact, it was the first time I met a person who ate buffet, at that time, for the sake of politeness, I didn't look at it much, so I went in to find a place to sit down, Later, when I took the crab, I met a big brother who taught me how to quickly find live crabs, and I was quite moved at the time, after all, strangers, after coming back and sitting down, I found that the eldest brother was sitting in front of me, just by myself, sitting at a small table, I was gnawing on crabs while watching the eldest brother also keep cooking crabs to eat, and actually ate a whole plate of oyster meat!! I particularly admired, and then when we were about to leave, there was an uncle at the table next to us, estimated to be more than 60 years, just by myself, I can cook what I should cook, and I don't feel unnatural.

I think that for a person who is particularly afraid of loneliness, he will never go to a restaurant to eat alone, although I do not belong to this kind of person who is particularly afraid of loneliness, but I also hope that someone will accompany me to eat.

As a girl, the relationship between girls and girlfriends is something that boys can't understand, girls and their girlfriends will do everything together, even one goes to the toilet, and the other will accompany him even if there is no need, let alone eat, everyone needs to eat anyway, so girls generally go to restaurants to eat with two or even several people.

When I was in college, I sometimes went to the restaurant to eat by myself, I think I still care more about the kind of people who think of others, whenever I am alone, I am very afraid of meeting people I know, in case acquaintances see that I am eating alone, I will definitely think that my popularity is definitely not good, and I don't even have someone to eat with. They would even feel how pathetic I was, eating alone, which I definitely didn't want them to think of me like that.

So whenever I go to eat alone, I try to keep my head down, for fear that others will see who I am, and if I meet acquaintances, I try to avoid them, and I resolutely don't talk if I can. And I was alone while eating and looking at my phone, pretending as if someone was looking for me to chat with me.

There is a girl in our dormitory who is particularly afraid of loneliness, she eats with her best friend every day and goes to class, if her best friend can't go to the restaurant with her one day because of something, she would rather skip dinner than go to the restaurant alone.