Husband and wife quarrel, bedside quarrel and bedside quarrel, how to get happier the more noisy?

It is very common for two people to quarrel when they are together, whether they are a couple or a couple. We have always heard the saying "quarrel at the head of the bed, and harmony at the end of the bed", because two people who love each other very much will not cause much damage to each other's relationship because of the quarrel, and all this is based on not breaking some taboos. If you want to be happier the more noisy, you must also pay attention to the following two points.

1.When arguing, don't always mention the other person's shortcomings

Now that you have become husband and wife with each other, you are very clear about each other's strengths and weaknesses. When we choose to enter the palace of marriage with each other, it means that we will tolerate each other's shortcomings, and we will make progress together with each other to overcome those shortcomings. And if we always poke at each other's weaknesses and always mention some of each other's shortcomings when we quarrel, it will make the other party feel that we don't love him so much.

There are some people who are psychologically fragile and prone to overthinking will even have a feeling of disgust for you. Once you have this feeling between husband and wife, your relationship as a couple will be very dangerous.

2.Don't always use divorce as a reason to threaten you

The two most taboo words mentioned in quarrels between husband and wife are "divorce". There are a lot of people in life who like to threaten each other with divorce when they quarrel, and they like to use this way to achieve their goals and satisfy their vanity. And once someone tastes the sweetness once, they will become addicted to this threatening way of arguing.

In fact, this way is to use the other party's love to kidnap the other party and let the other party listen to their own words. This is a very wrong behavior in itself, and once one day the other party can no longer tolerate your temper, the consequences can be imagined.

On the premise of not hurting the dignity of the other party, quarreling with each other for life is also a way to cultivate feelings, and through quarrels, you can understand the psychology of the other party.

Don't go over old accounts when you quarrel, don't verbally attack each other's parents, and if it's really your own fault, take the initiative to bow your head and admit your mistake.

Quarrels between husband and wife are inevitable, but they must not be too much, and consider the problem from the other party's point of view every time they are finished.

Quarrel because there is a different view, if after the quarrel, the man can take the initiative to bow his head and reconcile, the average family is happier.

Between husband and wife, respecting each other is a kind of normal, which is the norm for couples who restrain each other. Generally, between husband and wife, it is inevitable to quarrel over trivial matters, which are the inevitable result of the run-in between husband and wife. Don't be afraid of quarrels, frequent quarrels, if handled well, are also the glue of marriage, and the more you quarrel, the happier you are.