Some boys around me said that boys felt ashamed to go to the kitchen, why did they have such thought

In the present free thinking, boys have gradually begun to get in touch with housework and begin to go to the kitchen. The remarks of "gentlemen are far away from cooking" are gradually disappearing. And some boys still feel ashamed to go to the kitchen, I think there are several reasons:

One: Influenced by inherent traditional ideas, machismo is at work 。Since ancient times, the family model in China has been "male outside, female inside".

Girls do housework at home, and boys seem to have become an established mode of thinking, so there is still such a concept in many Chinese families, and many children are influenced by this concept, and they have machismo in their bones, and feel that they should be a man who stands up to the sky, rather than a childish person who surrounds firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea all day long. This biased concept has remained in their bones since childhood, so they think that cooking is a shameful thing.

2. Family reasons 。In most families, boys are generally not asked by their parents to cook and do housework, so they do not have such skills from the beginning, and they do not subconsciously have the concept of cooking for themselves.

So when life requires them to cook, they will try it at first, but when they make something that is not delicious, or even not appreciated, but ridiculed, they will feel ashamed, so they will also reject the kitchen. Because the kitchen is something they are not good at, over time, it will be embarrassing to go to the kitchen, and it is very embarrassing to go down to the kitchen to stay in their minds, so this idea is born.

In fact, it is not a shame for boys to do housework, we also have to learn to encourage boys to cook, and now, my dad is learning to cook and do housework.

There is no shame in boys going to the kitchen, on the contrary, it is quite manly, only those boys who wait all day to eat are the most annoying.

Probably machismo, the boys around me all cook, and they didn't feel ashamed.

The boy feels ashamed to go out of the kitchen, it's a macho idea at work. What's the shame of cooking, cooking is a kind of labor, do you have to have a girl cook? Are you noble when you cook for girls?

Maybe it's a manifestation of machismo, thinking that only girls should go to the kitchen, this kind of thinking is unacceptable.

I've been pampered since I was a child, or maybe it's too machismo. Maybe the environment in which I grew up is like this, and the relationship between parents is like this.

Most of a person's thoughts and personalities are determined by the family environment and the people and things he has come into contact with since childhood. Most of the time he has this kind of macho relatives or friends around him, so he has been under this influence, and he has formed the idea that it is shameful for men to cook. Guess that since you ask this question, it means that maybe there are men cooking in your environment and family, or although there are no men cooking, you don't have any opinions on men cooking, and you don't think it's strange, so in your cognition, you feel that others have this kind of thinking is not easy to understand!

In fact, this is very normal, but the difference in the life experience that people have been in contact with since childhood has led to a difference in the perception of things! If it is not easy to understand, you can imagine that a person has been told by the people around him since he was born that the leaves and grasses are all "purple", and he has not communicated with the outside world, and has not learned about them from other channels, so when he grows up, he suddenly talks to people outside of him about what color the leaves and grasses are? Then he must think it's "purple"!

And you know it's called green!

I'm uncomfortable and there's nothing to be ashamed of in the kitchen, it's just that men and women are equal, and it's normal for men to show where they are, and it's also very right to help girls work.

He's doing something macho at work. You can communicate with him slowly and change him.

Maybe it's because of a lack of self-confidence, and I wish I could have engraved the word manhood on my face.

It's a kind of machismo. This kind of thinking is still more traditional and constricted, after all, in modern society, we can see that the proportion of men in excellent chefs is very high, so men have greater talent in cooking. I feel that boys are ashamed to go to the kitchen, and boys with these thoughts have fallen behind a lot.