My colleague forgot to wash the toilet today and asked me if I could help, and I directly said that

Your colleague forgot to wash the toilet and wanted you to help, but you directly refused, and he felt quite embarrassed, so he said that he would go back to wash tomorrow.

It may be that he thinks that you don't help him, and he can't force it, but after this incident, he may not have such a good relationship with you.

My colleague forgot to wash the toilet today, and asked if you could help, and you directly said that someone else asked me, I don't want to wash, you can ask her to ask someone else, she thinks it's impossible, so she thinks that she will wash tomorrow, and his impression of you will be bad.

It's okay.

It's not your own business.

If you don't want to do it, don't do it.

Don't force it. Helping her is to give him face.

It's your right not to do it.

There's nothing wrong with that. Because no one wants to help. If it's a shift change, it should be fine. Say that next time I help you do the work of washing the toilet, it will be different. Some of the favors can be done without help. Know how to say no.

Well, I don't know if you really want to wash it, but he must have heard it from your words, you don't want to wash, so uh, he accepted it.

These should have been done by themselves, and if you don't want to help, it's hard to force you. It's okay, anyway, you just need to wash it when you remember to use it.

You've already rejected her, so she can only take this way, what else can she say?

He probably expected that you would reject him.

My colleague forgot to wash the toilet today and asked me if I could help, and I directly said that someone else just asked me if I didn't want to wash, and asked someone else, and she said no, you can be fine.

This kind of person just wants to take advantage of you, thinking that you are easy to talk to, easy to bully, pick soft persimmons and pinch, don't want to find others, why don't you want to find others, what do you mean, I'm afraid that others will say that he is not up to standard, it makes sense for you to refuse, what is it to help, and let others help with this kind of thing of washing the toilet, it's too shameless, you refuse, it's nothing, don't take it to heart.

Maybe she thought you could help her, but she didn't expect you to reject her, she thought that if you rejected her, then it would be even more impossible for others to help him, so she had to say that she washed herself.